Archives For Growth

The secret to living out your life purpose is found in nature and in Richard Linklater’s latest film.

Linklater recently pulled off the impossible: He released a movie that felt like an brand new concept.

Over the course of the past 12 years, Linklater filmed the same cast to create the film “Boyhood.” Boyhood is both simple and incredible. On one hand, it’s nothing great. The script is simple. The characters are stock. The plot is almost completely non-existent. There are moments that are more worthy of a Lifetime movie.

On the other hand, what Linklater has done in this movie is phenomenal and unprecedented. You watch as the main character from age six to age eighteen. He goes from being a hopeful kid to a rebellious teenager to a bright-eyed college freshman. You watch adults who come in and out of his life. You watch his parents do some growing up themselves.

By the end of the film, it feels less like you have watched a movie and much more like you have been a witness to the various seasons of a person’s life.

I love this concept for a movie because, I’m apparently obsessed with the idea of seasons.

This past summer I spent the weekend with four guys I had barely seen in 10 years to prepare for one guy’s wedding. After a few days, together one of the guys remarked something along the line of “let’s talk about seasons. Because Chris sure does. He’s always using the word ‘season.’”

I’m obsessed with seasons because I’m learning they hold the key to finding purpose in your life today.

Seasons are simultaneously obvious and ignored. There is nothing more basic and fundamental to what it means to live on earth than to deal with seasons. Seasons shape our clothing, language, sports, and agriculture. Our culture awash in technology, productivity and globalization also seems built to ignore seasons.

Parker Palmer puts it this way:

“Seasons” is a wise metaphor for the movement of life, I think. It suggests that life is neither a battlefield nor a game of chance, but something infinitely richer, more promising, more real. The notion that our lives are like the eternal cycle of the seasons does not deny the struggle or the joy, the loss or the gain, the darkness or the light, but encourages us to embrace it all – and to find in all of it the opportunities for growth. (Let Your Life Speak)

If you haven’t already, you’ll eventually hit a moment in life where you are struggling to know what your purpose.

Jesus followers have traditionally called this “vocation” a sense being called to join God’s work in the world through a specific task or way of life.

A few lucky people seem to live with a constant sense of vocation. They’ve got this drive and a grand purpose for their life.


For the rest of us, the search for our vocation can seem to be confounding.

Parker Palmer and Richard Linklater would suggest that we’re making this way too complicated. We can only experience vocation must within the seasons of our lives.

Or to put it more succinctly:

Know season, and you’ll know your reason.

Once you hear this, it seems incredibly obvious. We are rhythmic creatures in a rhythmic world. Our bodies are regulated by heartbeats, breaths and circadian rhythms. Our world is organized by the literal seasons of Spring, Summer, Fall and Winter. Texas is organized by the seasons of summer, and it’s almost summer.

A few common seasons that most people experience are adolescence, parenthood, being a student, depression and falling in love.

The people of God have always organized their lives around seasons. In the Bible, the people of God were called the Israelites, and they had festivals and seasons where they would all come together to commemorate important events in the past or just to worship. As early as the second century Christians began to organize their calendar with seasons based on the story of the life of Jesus, seasons like Advent, Christmastide, Lent, Eastertide and Ordinary time.

This is what Solomon (and The Birds) is getting at in his famous poem:

There is a time for everything,
and a season for every activity under the heavens:
a time to be born and a time to die,
a time to plant and a time to uproot,
a time to kill and a time to heal,
a time to tear down and a time to build,
a time to weep and a time to laugh,
a time to mourn and a time to dance,
a time to scatter stones and a time to gather them,
a time to embrace and a time to refrain from embracing,
a time to search and a time to give up,
a time to keep and a time to throw away,
a time to tear and a time to mend,
a time to be silent and a time to speak,
a time to love and a time to hate,
a time for war and a time for peace.

So tonight instead of losing sleep because you have no idea what your purpose in life is, consider these two questions:

What season of life am I in today?

How can I join in God’s work today?

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Photo credit Rachel Kramer.

There are few things that repulse me more than self-discipline. I’ve never practiced a musical instrument, consistently made my bed in the morning or paid my bills at a regular interval.

As a Church Planter, I am well aware of the fact that my own day-to-day life sets and example for what it means to follow Jesus. There is more to following Jesus than making the right decision when the time comes. It’s means becoming the kind of person who is in the routine of making the right decision.


So my lack of self-discipline is a problem. Nowhere was I feeling this more acutely than in my lack of spiritual discipline. Continue Reading…

Everywhere we look, we see tear gas, beheadings and disease.

Sometimes we respond by spouting our opinion. Often we go as far telling people what they are doing wrong. Or we get hyped up and angry about something that isn’t really about us.

It’s ironic to say this on a blog, a tool created to broadcast opinions, but I think that it’s okay to admit that we don’t always have anything helpful to say on a topic.

Moreover, it’s okay to be speechless about the difficulties others are experiencing.

The great lie of the social media is that if you share an opinion, you’ve helped somehow. But I’m starting to wonder if “having something to say” is making the problem worse.

So how do we respond to hatred, disaster and brokenness? Continue Reading…

We know that Jesus called us to be disciples.

But what does that mean, and how can churches get better at it?

The key is found in the life of Arnold Schwarzenegger.

How to become Hercules

In a recent interview with the Nerdist podcast, Arnold described the process by which he became the strongest man in the world, an internationally recognized movie star and governor of California.


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If you want to get really depressed, consider making a list of everything you have ever done that failed.

Actually, don’t. That sounds like a terrible idea.

For me, it’s hard not to think life as a series of failed experiments and missed opportunities. A little over a year ago I found myself out of a job, with a broken car, and needing a new place to live. Despite the name of this blog, I completely gave up on my attempts to become a better version of myself. I went into disaster-mode, focusing only on immediate threats.

Unsuprisingly, things got worse.

Then slowly, things got better.
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