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There’s a big hubub about Millennials leaving the church. If you look at my Facebook feed, it’s either because they are following Donald Miller’s lead or because they are democrats.

It would be easy to come up with a million reasons to “leave the church.” A few include:

  • Hypocrites hurt people.
  • Stifling values enforced during childhood don’t line up with real world experience.
  • In a choice between Jesus and Dinosaurs, you can see a dinosaur’s skeleton.
  • Gay people are generally nice people, too.
  • Some churches are boring.
  • Some churches try to be exciting, but are still boring and end up feeling cheap or cheesy.
  • Churches don’t seem to care about the poor as much as Jesus did.
  • Going to church sometimes means driving a gas guzzler, denying global warming, packing a gun and avoiding public schools. (Which to some people feels like a lot of work.)

These are all really good reasons, and they’re just the tip of the iceberg.

Which begs the question: Why do any of us stay in church?

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Millennials: The Frankl Generation?

Chris —  December 3, 2013

Some thought provoking insights from the NYT about Millennials growing focus on finding meaning through serving others.

Today’s young adults are hoping to go into careers that make an enduring impact on others….St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital came in as the No. 1 place these millennials wanted to work “The focus on helping others is what millennials are responding to,” James W. Lewis, the chief executive of the honor society, told Forbes.

Some studies have suggested that millennials are narcissistic and flaky in their professional and personal lives, and are more selfish than prior generations…Whereas older millennials showed a concern for meaning, the younger millennials who came of age during the Great Recession started reporting more concern for others and less interest in material goods.

This data reflects a broader pattern. Between 1976 and 2010, high school seniors expressed more concern for others during times of economic hardship, and less concern for others during times of economic prosperity. During times of hardship, young people more frequently look outward to others and the world at large.

…Millennials have been forced to reconsider what a successful life constitutes. By focusing on making a positive difference in the lives of others, rather than on more materialistic markers of success, they are setting themselves up for the meaningful life they yearn to have — the very thing that Frankl realized makes life worth living.

As more and more comes out about the Millenials, I’m rethinking the ideas of writers like Robert Webber and Leonard Sweet. Webber suggested that Younger Evangelicals would embrace liturgical forms. Sweet predicted that post-moderns were more concerned with collecting experiences than accumulating stuff.

As a follower of Jesus, do I find this encouraging? Not yet. Many of his teachings are simple “how to be decent humans”, and it should not surprise when others come to similar conclusions.

The problem with a general sense of altruism is that that it is unsustainable alone. Jesus called for peace, and so did the hippy generation. A few decades later the US was back at it in both Iraq and Afghanistan, and those voices nowhere to be heard.

Ideals such as altruism or peace-making need to couched in a worldview that gives them broader meaning. They need a system that teaches one how to act on their feelings. Jesus followers call that Faith and Discipleship.

What do we do with a study like this? Use the growing sense of altruism to as a launching point for teaching the Jesus way of life.

Millenial Searchers can be read on the New York Times website.

It’s been over a week now since Rachel Held Evans tried to explain the “Millennials Exodus” to the world. Everyone had to get in their two cents (myself included). Can we now get back to the problem at hand?

Yes, Millennials are leaving the church. Women in their forties feel left out. I’m pretty sure if we dug a bit we could find that men in their 60s and dogs in their 30s (in dog years) are also leaving the church.

The problem is not the problem, folks.

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